Set a budget you can live with
Qualifying for a loan and feeling comfortable with the payment are separate questions. Your budget should leave room for the way you live after you get the keys.
Work backward from your month
Start with reliable take-home income. List the expenses you will keep after moving: food, transportation, debt payments, health costs, childcare if applicable, and other commitments. Include savings you intend to continue. If retirement contributions or insurance already come out of your paycheck, do not subtract them again.
Replace your current housing cost with the proposed ownership cost when comparing budgets. Counting both your rent and a full mortgage as permanent expenses can distort the result. Temporary overlap during a move belongs in a separate moving budget.
Include the whole ownership cost
PITI means principal, interest, property taxes, and homeowners insurance. Mortgage insurance, association charges, flood insurance, utilities, and maintenance can add to that amount. Check what your lender’s quoted payment already includes so you do not count taxes or insurance twice.
Illustration only: $3,000 principal and interest + $1,000 taxes + $200 insurance + $150 mortgage insurance = $4,350 monthly. Add $350 utilities and $300 maintenance savings and the household budget becomes $5,000. These are invented planning numbers, not local price estimates or a loan quote.
Separate cash to close from cash to keep
Plan for the down payment, loan charges, attorney and title costs, recording charges and applicable taxes, prepaid expenses, and escrow funding. Ask the lender and attorney for estimates for the actual transaction. Inspections, moving, and immediate work also need funding, even when they are paid outside closing.
Your contract deposit is generally credited toward the purchase funds; it is not automatically an extra down payment. Keep an emergency reserve separate from the cash you intend to spend. A rebate or seller credit should not be counted until its availability and treatment are confirmed for your transaction.
Use property-specific numbers
Ask for the actual tax bills, including any separate village bill. Check whether displayed taxes reflect the seller’s exemptions. Your eligibility and future bill may differ. Obtain an insurance quote for the address and ask about exclusions or separate flood coverage.
For residential purchases of $1 million or more, New York’s additional state transfer tax commonly called the mansion tax is 1% of the full consideration, subject to the applicable rules. Have your attorney confirm the tax treatment and other charges. Revisit the budget after inspection findings and the lender’s updated figures.
Choose your comfortable monthly ceiling before you choose your maximum offer.
Your next step
Use page 2 of the workbook to record:
- Reliable monthly take-home income and continuing expenses
- Full proposed housing cost; what is already included?
- Cash to close, moving costs, and reserves kept separate
- Comfortable monthly ceiling and purchase-price range
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Ask Tom a questionHow I help buyersEducational guidance by Thomas Brady, Licensed Associate Real Estate Broker, Vintage American Realty, LLC. Updated September 11, 2026. Your lender, attorney, insurer, and other qualified professionals should confirm the requirements for your purchase.